tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5274935109810298997.post192768181064814291..comments2022-11-16T09:05:22.593-06:00Comments on I am Inspired: As ifInspired Vanessahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11267599824573875688noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5274935109810298997.post-29773250900942458912010-09-13T17:48:56.008-05:002010-09-13T17:48:56.008-05:00I do hope it improves as well.I do hope it improves as well.Inspired Vanessahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11267599824573875688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5274935109810298997.post-85700655815990507882010-09-13T13:10:33.671-05:002010-09-13T13:10:33.671-05:00I understand your decision.
I hope her behavior...I understand your decision. <br /><br />I hope her behavior improves soon.Contra Yoginihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07848210960694248952noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5274935109810298997.post-3086888624455620812010-09-12T11:16:40.895-05:002010-09-12T11:16:40.895-05:00If only it were that simple. This is a long term ...If only it were that simple. This is a long term friendship and in long term friendships, there sometimes exist huge rifts. It's not a sprint, it's a marathon. So, for now, like anything else, I give it considered pause and wait to see what happens- sometimes you feel compelled to wait a thing out.<br />If this were someone I did not know well, I might not be giving her a pass but this is someone under extreme stress and life changes.<br />I took a moment, sat back and thought about it and realized that I have been a good friend to her and when she wakes up, she will realize it, if she doesn't, at that point, then I will revisit the issue and perhaps end the friendship- but that is a last resort when all else has been exhausted.<br />I'm afraid I can't quit on friendships easily and in order to do that I would have to determine I am better off without her. I'm not there yet.Inspired Vanessahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11267599824573875688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5274935109810298997.post-27817237519070508032010-09-09T15:51:35.868-05:002010-09-09T15:51:35.868-05:00PS By "phrase", I meant initialism, but ...PS By "phrase", I meant initialism, but I digress :)Contra Yoginihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07848210960694248952noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5274935109810298997.post-84413956407103096172010-09-09T15:50:07.182-05:002010-09-09T15:50:07.182-05:00Have you ever heard the phrase DTMFA? Coined by D...Have you ever heard the phrase DTMFA? Coined by Dan Savage, it means "dump the mother fucker already." <br /><br />Now, I'm not necessarily calling your friend a mother fucker, but I would say that her antics are very Glenn Beck. Very Sarah Palin. Very "I don't need to use rational thought - no sir, I think with my emotions." <br /><br />I say DTMFA b/c I anticipate w/ some certainty [perhaps unfairly, since it is based on what you have written here alone] that you, a thinking person, will continue to have problems with her, a non-thinking person. Why endure such grief when you only live so long?<br /><br />Om shanti.Contra Yoginihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07848210960694248952noreply@blogger.com